The lesson of forgiveness

“Mom, why do you always expect me to forgive people even after they have done extremely wrong? “, the daughter said.

” Darling, its not for them its for you only. I am not saying to excuse them for what they have done, but to excuse yourself from the chapter you don’t want to be the part of anymore. Our life is not that story whose plot is decided by someone else deeds its ours only, we have to conclude every part of it. If you forgive anyone, that doesn’t mean you have to erase the memory. You simply choose to forgive to free yourself from that bitterness. Memory stays, not to be forgotten but to be remember as a valuable lesson of life. Free yourself even from those who are not sorry about their actions. Holding on anger only hurts you not them, “mother ended. 

  • P. S. -A fiction, hope you have enjoyed. You are free to share your words, ideas and thoughts in the comment section. 



62 thoughts on “The lesson of forgiveness

  1. Yes Sudarshana first let me congratulate u for your awesome way of writing and yes forgiveness comes from within and first we need to forgive ourselves in order to free ourselves from all this negativity. Such an inspiring story. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

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    1. That is so kind and sweet of you. You never left any chance to appreciate me with such wonderful words and I am thankful to you for that always and I meant it “always”. Lots of love to you 😘💓💋💓💋💖💕💎

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  2. Each time I visit you here Purva I enjoy your posts more and more! This is one of the most valuable lessons we can teach ourselves in life in my opinion and for you to know this already in life gives me great joy to know…it is not an easy thing to get a hold of for sure but once you do oh my goodness you set yourself free from so much negativity and unhealthy energies it is really quite amazing! XOXO!!

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    1. Thank you so very very much for these lovely words. The thing I need to learn from you is writing beautiful poetries too, hope you will make me learn, haha. A very good morning to you 😘💓💋💋💓💋💖

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      1. You write what pours out of your heart sweet girl and I know you will write the most beautiful poetry of all! Your heart is so beautiful how could you not!? It is actually almost 10pm where I am so I hope to be dreaming soon! Good morning to you I hope you have the best day possible! XO! ❤ ❤ ❤

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  3. Indeed! I agree with this line: ” If you forgive anyone, that doesn’t mean you have to erase the memory. You simply choose to forgive to free yourself from that bitterness.”

    It’s not them who will suffer bitterness or insecurities, but it’s you. if you won’t forget people, even if they don’t ask for it, your heart will suffer from it. Freeing yourself from what they’ve done wrong with you is by forgiving them. And not forgetting because you learned from it, somehow.

    Great post Sudershana! Keep inspiring! 😊

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  4. A lesson to remember all our life. Forgiveness is partly for others and partly for us.
    At times people don’t even feel guilty of what wrong they did, but then who is suffering? We. So it’s better to let go of what we don’t want to stay part of.
    I loved the explanation of mum. 🙂


  5. Thanks for sharing these important words about forgiveness. I have a poetry blog here on WordPress and today’s poem is about forgiving in case you have time to look? Wishing you a good week, Sam 🙂


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