Think before you speak

Do you know we carry a weapon along with us 24/7, yes a weapon this might not hurt anyone physically but capable of destroying people to the core. Its not any gun, it’s the sword of tongue. It is a sword, a sword of many beautiful stories and unfortunately for many evil ones too. 

We all have heard many times Think before you speak four words but are enough to make someone live a happy loving life forever. Its not always we intentionally hurt someone sometimes we are not aware about which words of ours make someone feel depressive or low. As I said, its a sword at times it use for our defense but many times can be reason of never going wounds also. Before speaking make sure that your tongue is connected to your brains. 

Let your words pass through three gates:

At the first gate ask, “Is it true? “

At the second gate ask, “Is it right? “

At the third gate ask, “Is it kind? “

And then hopefully  your words will be a  part of beautiful stories of your own life or other’s life. Speak in such a way that other’s love to listento you. 



68 thoughts on “Think before you speak

  1. Very well said, sometimes we don’t think that not everyone may be receptive to our humour, something we may find funny may hurt another. Think before you speak. 👍🏼
    Wonderful post.


      1. This not the right approach in life. One should never try to hurt others emotions.

        In order to hurt some one we need to create anger within for others and that harms the most who is holding anger like burning coal.


  2. I so agree with this post. Even in fun fun we say so mnay things that can affect a person so badly. I think I have read about these three gates somewhere else too, it is just don’t remember it right now, haha
    Thank you so much for sharing!! 🙂 🙂


  3. Hey Dear!
    True, True, So True! 100% Girl!
    Indeed! You can build a person up with your words or you can break somebody into pieces.
    What we choose to say to other people can have a big impact. That’s why it is very important to think before we speak because we cannot undo words.

    Love this post, Girl!💯
    Hugz & Kisses,
    Miss B.💋


  4. Words are more powerful than we can imagine, when words are thrown negatively at you, it’s worse off than being beaten up on a boxing ring!!
    Let’s mind our speech, we might be saving someone’s life by speaking right!
    Thanks for sharing.


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