Think before you speak

Do you know we carry a weapon along with us 24/7, yes a weapon this might not hurt anyone physically but capable of destroying people to the core. Its not any gun, it’s the sword of tongue. It is a sword, a sword of many beautiful stories and unfortunately for many evil ones too. 

We all have heard many times Think before you speak four words but are enough to make someone live a happy loving life forever. Its not always we intentionally hurt someone sometimes we are not aware about which words of ours make someone feel depressive or low. As I said, its a sword at times it use for our defense but many times can be reason of never going wounds also. Before speaking make sure that your tongue is connected to your brains. 

Let your words pass through three gates:

At the first gate ask, “Is it true? “

At the second gate ask, “Is it right? “

At the third gate ask, “Is it kind? “

And then hopefully  your words will be a  part of beautiful stories of your own life or other’s life. Speak in such a way that other’s love to listento you. 

Purva

68 responses to “Think before you speak”

  1. so very true πŸ™‚ and conveyed very beautifully !!

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    1. Thanks a million. I am glad you liked it!

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      1. My pleasure 😊 . I will try to apply those 3 gates in my routine !!

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      2. That will be great. Hope you will succeed and I am sure your words make a beautiful story.

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      3. hope so πŸ™‚ ,, thanks for your kind words !

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    1. Thanks a lot for always being so generous!

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  2. Yes absolutely agree with your true words, Sudershana and always think before you speak. Our words are so powerful it can make or break someone and why hurt people. Loved the way u described it as a sword that can kill too. Great post.

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    1. Thanks a ton for these wonderful words you have shared. You always fill me with joy with your appreciation as well as admiration! Much love and hugs to you 💓💋💓💋💓💋💓💋

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      1. Thanks dear Sudershana and really one must think in today’s time they are

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      2. Indeed! You are always welcome and loved at my site!

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      3. Same here too, there are few of us who write such beautiful words of encouragement on our posts. Have a nice day.

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      4. Haha, you are absolutely right. Have a great day you too!

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      5. Welcome dear and one must learn to think before speaking in today’s time of chaos and impatience. Thanks Sudershana. Love and kisses to you to dear.

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      6. Indeed! Much love 💓

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  3. Very well said, sometimes we don’t think that not everyone may be receptive to our humour, something we may find funny may hurt another. Think before you speak. πŸ‘πŸΌ
    Wonderful post.

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    1. Indeed. Every word shared here is so true. Thanks a ton for the appreciation as well as admiration. That really means a lot!

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      1. My pleasure dear, keep writing as you bring to light many issues that are much needed.

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      2. Thanks a million for your wonderful words!

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  4. That’s wonderful point, human behaviour is complex you never know… When you may hurt anyone unknowingly…

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    1. Absolutely. But sometimes its a task done knowingly too. Thanks for reading as well as sharing your words!

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      1. This not the right approach in life. One should never try to hurt others emotions.

        In order to hurt some one we need to create anger within for others and that harms the most who is holding anger like burning coal.

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      2. Absolutely. And I am glad you oppose this action!

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      3. I do request to forgive such people and have compassion for them for their ignorance. If possible.

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  5. That’s one of the most important advice to lead a good life… Thank you…

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    1. Thanks to “you” for reading as well as sharing such great words.

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  6. Very true!!! You seem quite wise for your age…..

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    1. Haha, is it? BTW thank you so much!

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  7. So very true Purva. The harsh words spoken can be more brutal than a physical wound. It creates gashes on one’s heart which can leave a scar for a lifetime!

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    1. Indeed! It leaves a scar for life. Thanks for sharing your beautiful words here!

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  8. Reblogged this on Freidenkerins Weblog and commented:
    Ich werde mir ganz viel MΓΌhe geben, das zu beherzigen. Und zwar ab sofort, und nicht erst im neuen Jahr. πŸ˜‰

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    1. Thanks very very much for the reblog!

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  9. The starting line is just perfectly apt. Nicely written. πŸ‘ŒπŸΌ

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    1. Thanks a lot for your lovely words!

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      1. Welcome. ☺️

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  10. I suffer from speaking first without thinking about what it is I want to say.

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    1. Hope you will free from this soon. Thanks for sharing your words here!

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      1. Thanks for being a good blogger.

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      2. Thanks to you too for being the same as well.

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  11. I so agree with this post. Even in fun fun we say so mnay things that can affect a person so badly. I think I have read about these three gates somewhere else too, it is just don’t remember it right now, haha
    Thank you so much for sharing!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

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    1. So many times it happens but as I said then we can’t do anything except regretting. I have read about those gates on twitter few days back. Pleasure to share it.

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      1. Yes, you are absolutely correct Di! 😊
        Btw, next episode is out, would you like to read it?

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  12. How lovely a post is this?!! If we speak right from our hearts all of us what a wonderful world it would be Purva! ❀ ❀ ❀

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    1. Absolutely just the way you always speak. Thanks a lot for sharing your wonderful words here. Much love 💓

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  13. Inspirational! Even the best of us need this reminder every once and a while!

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    1. Thanks a million for sharing your wonderful words here!

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  14. I agree with you! I feel we need to remind this statement β€œThink before you speak” all the time.
    Nice post!

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    1. I am glad you agreed as well as liked it. Thank you!

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  15. Now very true. I even thought before I said that xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    1. Haha, you are always so kind and humble. Thank “you” so much! Happy New Year’s to you. Much love 💓💋💓💋💓

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  16. Totally agree; if you don’t have something nice to say, just don’t say it.

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    1. Exactly. Thanks for sharing your kind words!

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  17. So important, especially in these times we live in.

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    1. Indeed! Thanks for sharing your kind words!

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  18. Nice post!
    I fall victim to saying whatever is on my mind without thinking about it sometimes and will definitely try to work on it

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    1. Hope you will get over it soon and sometimes saying what’s in your mind, doesn’t harm, lol
      Thanks for sharing your words

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  19. Hey Dear!
    True, True, So True! 100% Girl!
    Indeed! You can build a person up with your words or you can break somebody into pieces.
    What we choose to say to other people can have a big impact. That’s why it is very important to think before we speak because we cannot undo words.

    Love this post, Girl!πŸ’―
    Hugz & Kisses,
    Miss B.πŸ’‹

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    1. Thank you so so very much! You are so kind and humble. Thanks for sharing your wonderful words here. Much love 💓💋💓💋💓💋💓💋💓💋💖💕😘😍

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      1. πŸ’•Hey Darling! πŸ’•
        Awh so sweet! πŸ˜™πŸ˜™πŸ˜™πŸ˜™
        ThnQ Dear for you’re lovely comment!πŸ˜€πŸŒΉ
        ❀❀Hugz & Kisses❀❀

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      2. Thanks a lot. Do you like to read my latest post . I would love to have your feedback

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      3. You’re Welcome Dear! Yes I will definitly check it outπŸ˜€πŸ˜™

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  20. Words are more powerful than we can imagine, when words are thrown negatively at you, it’s worse off than being beaten up on a boxing ring!!
    Let’s mind our speech, we might be saving someone’s life by speaking right!
    Thanks for sharing.

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